If you simply do what she tells you to do without any resistance, how long do you think it will be before she starts to tone it down and stop yelling? It will happen in a fairly short time. No one fights forever once they realize that the other side has completely surrendered and offers no resistance. (OH BABY NOW WE ARE COOKING! TOTAL DOMESTIC SUBMISSION!!!) a b c d Varrin, Claudia (1998). The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women. Carol Publishing Group. pp.53–61. ISBN 1-55972-447-1. Just as it goes when introducing a partner to any sort of kink or fetish, you need to discuss each other’s limits, thoughts, and emotions.

a b Fischer, Nancy L.; Seidman, Steven (2016). Introducing the New Sexuality Studies (3rded.). Routledge. p.351. ISBN 9781317449188.Walking like a woman: Get him to stand tall, hold his head high, and sway his hips the way women do. Posture and attitude are key here. So that leaves us with the Lady of the house attempting to be the alpha mate in more conventional ways. She decides all the important issues, when to buy something big, where to live, where the kids will go to school, how much time you will spend scrubbing her kitchen floor, doing the ironing, buying her gifts, etc... (yum! - Oh I have digressed again. It is difficult not to drift off to happy fantasy land while writing about this stuff I can assure you.) At her whim—and for her amusement only—you may occasionally be required to serve as a sex toy for both her and her lover.

Entering into that zone can strengthen your connection as a couple and that in itself can be a huge turn-on! Those matters include cleaning, cooking, washing, ironing, shopping and earning money to provide for all household expenses. You can go bold and bright with crazy colors or choose something more ‘natural’. It all depends on your preference and what style of sissy or costume you’re creating. A further sub-set is "sissy maid training", [9] a common scenario, [7] [10] where the sissy takes on the role of a maid, taking care of housework or serving drinks and food at a party while behaving submissively and wearing an often frilly and revealing maid uniform, [9] [10] such as a French maid or rubber maid dress. The dominant partner in a sissy maid training scenario, overseeing the sissy's housework, may role-play punishing them with things such as spanking, humiliation or bondage, [8] whether the infraction was real or made up; [6] a reward for good behavior might be allowing the submissive to orgasm. [11] She is a good lady and a strong and confident lady as well. I really enjoy her company and doing little chores for her is fun. And when I am doing them under the direction of Her Majesty, well it's just delightful! Two strong and confident women gently bossing me around! It's Like a Visit to Pussy Whipped Paradise!

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Ultimately, you will be able to get your sissy used to anal penetration and possibly get dominated by another man. It took us a couple of years to get to that point, so don’t rush! My Sissy Training Guide If on the other hand you do all the things I've talked about in earlier entries like put everything aside to LISTEN to her, and support her in her decisions, and drop everything to do things for her, endlessly do little things to show t hat you are thinking about her, she will feel respected and her poise will slowly climb. She will feel that she can 'ask you' to do anything and that you will and that you will out of love, deference and respect.

The Queen is not worried about my being able to perform for her when she wants me to. Oh I have the occasional issue but they are rare and she knows it and she has come to expect her pleasure when she wants her pleasure! In general when I have an issue it is because she catches me unawares and I am not quite ready for it. She has however learned how to give me a little time to warm up to the idea now and 'mechanical failures' have become very rare. When it comes to the necessary toys and tools to train your sissy, the selection can get a little overwhelming. There are thousands of products to choose from in any category, and it may take a while before you decide on the ones you like. Fiction is fun and I write a lot myself about forced feminisation as a method of punishment. The truth is far more complex in real-life relationships. Alice’s forced feminization was a gift, it gave me control, she is a better person and she’s even more attractive as a girl. It adds a certain spice to our marriage. My approach in the early days did lead to some problems before, by chance, I found the effect of mild feminisation on him. It was through his forced feminisation that I have been able to take over the marriage. Alice has grown to enjoy her femininity and for me to lead proving my point that forcing male feminisation is a good thing for all concerned.Every other Saturday Selina goes to Donna’s house to clean and do chores for her. Donna has her dress in one of the Sissy Maid dresses she bought from Birch Place and relishes having Selina be very sissified. I’m ok with that and only require Donna not do anything to jepordize my precious hubette’s safety. Donna also uses a ball gag and has her do some chores in light bondage. She also has had Selina serve at gatherings at her home where other women are present. It was a simple task, remove, launder, and rehang a set of flags at her small private school. The collection had grown over the years and were both getting dirty and hung a bit haphazardly. As she is a widow now having her lady friends 'ask' their husbands to do things for her seems very natural and a good idea as well.

The surely sad truth is that the overwhelming majority of wives do not—in the least—find your sissy desires appealing. In fact, most women would be downright disgusted with the idea of being married to a sissified and emasculated male. My own husband was more reluctant and he needed stronger encouragement. I would say that was because he didn’t realise he wanted to be feminised so I had to overcome his inner social conditioning. I was his guide. At the beginning of the training, we started out small. Bras, panties, and perhaps a little bit of makeup during sex. The main thing here is that you and your sissy get a feel for it and find out where your comforts lie. If both of you are more than okay with what’s going on and wish to proceed, then you can get into more intense stuff. I’d love to hear from more women like me, who live in FLRs. Why did you feminise your husband? What resistance did you get? Ladies such as me, Cathy and Katrina mentioned above and others such as Madam Chris and Lolo have feminised our husbands through a sense of love and care.

How far you go depends on whether your BDSM is just for the bedroom or you live the lifestyle 24/7, and how much of a sissy he is willing to become! This is, in a way, the type of lifestyle my husband and I lead. I am a female dom, have always been, and he is a sub. Not only a sub, but my husband is also a fully-trained, fully broken-in sissy. This is why sissy training is a reflection of deep understanding and trust between the dom and their sissy. You can’t so completely give yourself to someone you don’t trust, and the fact that my husband lets me train him is one of the biggest compliments (and turn-ons) I’ve ever gotten.